The economics of relationships

Thinking the money before you call that lawyer

King Sunny Ade said in one of his songs of the ‘80s and I paraphrase, “loving hurts no one except that babies are made.”

Well, the reality, many will agree, is that loving does a little more than creating babies between you two. From wasted funds, to debts, and bills from the lawyers, there can be real financial implication for loving. Emotional Intelligence, and knowing when to get help works not only to boost your mental health but also to protect or buoy your finances. Consequence of relationship mistakes could be huge financially and this is why anyone who contemplates adding a significant other in their life journey need the requisite knowledge or help to enable them to enjoy the happiness inherent in well planned dating, courtship or marriage.

First is to plan as you manage expectation. Planning includes equipping yourself as well as your partner daily with useful doses of knowledge not to pry into untroubled waters but to explore ways at enjoying happiness together using available resources. Second is to have one who listens empathetically or counsel wisely when expectations are not met. Chances are there will be such moments but the good news also is that most of the challenges are surmountable.

Don’t let the statistics scare you though it looks scary

Money problem remain a prominent reason for divorce among other things which include lack of commitment, communication problem, and domestic violence. While the rest of these causes are less mechanical and can be preached away, the financial stands out as one which is reckoned to be seminal, which also mitigate the potency of other challenges when it is itself handled.

To choose a family planning option, children spacing, their care and education, the rent, to have a budget for vacationing and affairs of the in-laws – these are questions which will go a long way deciding the quality of life in the family being built. They are decisions best made with the listening ear of one who has considered far too many cases to make wrong judgments. Direct recommendations from an expert, using your personal scenario as guide cannot be downplayed.

Happiness is one of life’s most important needs and it deserves to be planned. Just before you call that lawyer, even if you already have, you should take some counseling to see what can be repaired, or at the very least take with you the right lessons from your experience. You cannot do this alone. We are happy to help, our ministry being dedicated to restoring broken homes and strengthening marriages through prayer, counselling, and sound biblical teachings. We’ll be sharing inspirational messages and ministry updates with you. If you have a prayer request or need counselling, feel free to Add Contact hence our digital call card through the contributor’s profile below. Also, we will be showcasing our library of books and other media which you can purchase from same profile.

Our mission is to provide guidance, support, and prayer to individuals and families in need. This we do confidentially and professionally by helping hundreds of couples identify communication patterns between them, rebuild intimacy and connection, and work through past hurts and betrayals. The feeling which every resolved case brings is heavenly. You sure want to choose that over holding on to your hurts so hold on calling that lawyer. Call us instead.

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